Well, this is the first yr in OLGC that i am in morning session!! WOw.. i am so happy.. Michelle asked me if i am always so perky in the morning.. well, i m happy that i am in morning session!! I can't stand floating... Argh.. So i m thankful that i am off the hook this year! haha.. Anyway, today is a mad frenzy.. I am always feeling lost.. hmm.. let's hope the days will get better as the days pass..
Today I was supposed to meet Zhicong and Alvin at 3pm to discuss the wedding this Sunday. However, i had to postpone the time to 4.30pm.. Haiz.. But guess what, i only manage to leave school at 4.40pm.. GREAT! I am super late! Haha.. Luckily these 2 fellows didn't kill me.. OopS..
It's interesting to hear how they feel about their relationship with their other one. Zhicong was saying that as the girl upgrade the status from fren to girlfriend to wife, the expectations upgraded too, just like a package. However, the guy will not be able to meet up with the expectations and then the girl will say that he don't love her as much as before or she will start to complain about the difference.. It is like jumping high jump, once u cross a certain height, the girl will start to raise the pole and it gets higher and higher till one day, the guy will not be able to jump over.. Interesting analogy..
Alvin said this, " I might be super, i am a man, BUT, I am not SUPERMAN!" haha..
I presented my own theory, woman and man have different expectations and are on different grounds once they are married.. During courtship, woman and man base their relationship on LOVE.. After marriage, woman still base the relationship on LOVE, however, man base it on RESPONSIBILTY.. This is where they start to have disagreement and wives start to complain..
I enjoyed talking to them, it's good to know how the man feels when they are in a relationship and cuz i am not their other part, i find their theories and insights funny and interesting. Haha..
There are alot of books and GURUs telling us all about Love and relationship between man and woman.. However, there is no right and wrong answers.. HUMANS.. we are just PLAIN IRRITATING.. We can't get what we want and we will start to complain..
P.S.: SKF stands for Singapore Karate-do Federation
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Thks!
Love is so magical. Can u imagine that two different person, from two different world, from two different lifestyle, from two different upbringing, from two different thoughts, can stay together and start a complement each other.
~wow~
*cried*
Tell Zhicong and Alvin that I find their views candid and funny for a woman to hear. I like that.
My theory: Man needs woman, woman needs man, or so they think. However, when they are alone, they survive. Hahaha!
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